Lagos, 2020
Cooking was a chore.
Then the world stopped.
I am the CEO of LifeBank, a global health company. Monday to Saturday, I run hard — logistics, governments, crises, lives. When COVID arrived in Lagos in 2020, we built drive-through screening centers while the governments were doing what governments do. I was inside those screening tents. Terrified. Exhausted. Holding it together for everyone else.
Before that year, cooking was something I did because it had to be done. It was never mine. It was never for me. It was just another task in an already impossible list.
Then the world forced me to slow down. No flights. No international trips. Just home — my husband, my kids, four walls, and a kitchen I had never really used as anything other than a passage.
Every Sunday
I needed to be
completely gone.
I started cooking on Sundays. Not Nigerian food — I already knew Nigerian food. It had to be hard. Interesting. Explorative. A country I had never cooked before, every single week. A full four-course dinner from somewhere entirely new.
It didn't have to be delicious. It had to allow me to be completely gone. When you are researching a Peruvian ceviche or trying to understand the chemistry of a Moroccan pastilla, you cannot think about oxygen concentrators or supply chains or government bureaucracy. You are just there — in the recipe, in the technique, in the smell of something unfamiliar becoming something real in your hands.
That disappearance was the most important thing I found in 2020. Not the food. The going away.